Saturday, July 28, 2012

How to Have a Successful Career AND a Successful Marriage/Relationship

When you have an internal conflict between two (or more) things, you are creating a dichotomy - a split - in how you see things about what is possible and what isn't.  That split creates boundaries between the two things that you want.


This could be obvious such as some of the statements above or quite subtle such as "Shall I do x or y today?" 


When you decide to do something, do it.  Don't split your energy over it.  


When you split your energy over something you are diluting your resources in the manifestation and the inspiration to it.


The skill is to bring those two outcomes/goals/realities together and integrate them into one, i.e. -

- A life with a successful career AND a successful marriage/relationship
- The feeling of self (within which is 'independence') AND a fantastic and amazing relationship
- Someone that you are deeply attracted to AND someone who is good for you


When you start to SEE something, you start to make it happen.


When you see a split in what is possible, or see it as impossible, it's harder to create it, unless you happen to take your attention off the conflict (/resistance) and allow in what you want.


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